just gonna say this: if someone has social anxiety and they ask you something akin to ‘are you mad at me’ or ‘do you hate me’, it isn’t because they don’t trust you, it’s because their brain literally tells them that all the time
it’s not a personal slight, it’s insecurity caused by mental illness
hey that’s cool and all but this sort of behaviour is also really incredibly stressful on your friends. your best pals are not your security blankets, they’re real live people with their own thoughts and feelings.
constantly asking someone ‘do you hate me’ is one hell of a guilt trip, whether you mean it to be or not.
living with anxiety disorders can be tough sometimes! but an important part of learning to handle them is taking responsibility for yourself and your thoughts. this doesn’t mean you should never ask someone if they’re mad at you — but it does mean first assessing the situation for yourself, and taking into account your own natural tendencies.
it also means understanding why a friend may be offended or hurt that you’re asking them these questions. empathy is a two-way street! one filled with bears.
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✿ i just fucking realised kags is totally my ex. ✿ (except my ex wasn't a genius setter he was mostly on the bench lol) ✿ but yeah cold exterior but actually really really insecure inside that's him ✿ (that's why i broke up with him in the first place he was too damn insecure and took everything too seriously ✿ we were two most incompatible people in the world) ✿ tl;dr i wanted to date tsukki but ended up with a kageyama ✿ and now when i realised this will my love for kageyama be as strong i don't know fuck ✿ ハイキュー!! ✿ animanga
✿ i'm crying the op tagged this as ✿ ouga chaka lied to me ✿ this is golden ✿ can that be the official tag for people who will want to read the comics after coming back from the movie ✿ marvel ✿ guardians of the galaxy ✿ peter quill
YOU WERE SUPPOSED TO BE A CARE-FREE AND FUN LOVING CHARACTER
stop being a realist about war and flip the bird like in the trailer